Can you have a romantic first date that isn’t cheesy?
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Long walks on the beach, candlelit dinners and the age-old trip to the cinema. Today some of the most common romantic first date ideas also happen to be a little bit cringe worthy. Not only are these dating stereotypes cheesy and awkward, they’re also lacking in individuality. However this doesn’t mean the end of date nights with feeling. These days romantic dates are all about unique and heartfelt ideas that set you apart from the crowd. Here are some tips on how to strike the right balance between romantic dream date and clichéd catastrophe.
The things to avoid
Laying on the romance thick during a first date isn’t only cheesy, for most people it’s moving too fast. When we go on a first date, the thing that we’re all looking for is the quality that makes any relationship flourish: chemistry. Think of a date idea where you’re both going to be comfortable as you talk, laugh and get to know each other.
You own take on romance
The reason the old dating clichés get so many eyes rolling is that they don’t personally strike a chord for most daters. Lighting a few candles and scattering some rose petals doesn’t really show how well you know your date. Romance today isn’t generic, but rather it’s built on those little details that show you know how to get your date’s heart aflutter.
Pay attention to their interests
When it comes to showing off your romantic side, it’s always the attention to detail that counts. Skip the skywriting or candlelit meals and instead think of a date idea that shows an interest in what makes them tick. If your date is a firm environmentalist, why not organise a green friendly date that leaves a small carbon footprint. Likewise if you’re getting to know a vegetarian, head to a vegetarian restaurant so they aren’t limited in their dining choices.
If you prefer something a bit more flamboyant, you can organise a scavenger hunt around your date’s interests. This is great for photography lovers, as you can race against the clock to replicate photos from around the city. After all, compatibility is one of the crucial things in any successful relationship. If you’re struggling to meet compatible singles in your area, relationship sites like eHarmony Canada specialise in matching people who share your passions and interests.
Think outside the square
The really impressive dates are the ones that show a little bit of extra thought and care. This doesn’t need to mean expensive, as some of the best romantic dating ideas are free or cost very little. Instead of heading to the cinema to catch the latest blockbuster, why not do some research and find out your date’s favourite film. Cook them a special meal, rent it on DVD and you have created a personal and heartfelt version of the old dinner and a movie date.
